The other night working in the Emergency Department I was dog tired as I picked up a chart of a patient to see. After I obtained the pertinent medical information from this patient, I then asked my 94 year old patient, “Where were you during world war 2?”
He proceeded to share a little known story about his time working with General Patton. The patient told me that even his own grandkids don’t ask nor seem interested in his life experiences. It was an interesting and amazing patient interaction. I left that conversation so energized that the last 2 hours of my shift flew by.
Reflecting on this event, reminds me of the power of our ability to choose what perspective we will be in and what powerful question we can ask of ourselves and others. Perspective: It is amazing to me how quickly I can shift from ‘dog tired’ perspective to ‘wow what an incredible patient and story’ perspective–shifting from falling asleep to being fully awake–better than any cup of caffeine! Question: It is fun and shocking the power of a question to shift our thoughts and energy levels. I recently asked at a dinner party: What do you crave? This one question made for a deep and meaningful and laughter filled discussion.
What is the question that you could ask at work and at home that would energize or change your day for the better?
My question would be: “what brings you joy?” And, if I’m allowed a follow up, “are you getting enough of that?”.